Again

Dear You Know Who You Are,

Your nails are "done up" again. Did you not just lose your job last week? Are you not on public assistance? Were you not the one saying at the last family function that you were upset that you were on public assistance? Yet your nails are done, you have nicer clothes than we do, and your baby always has on a new outfit. WTF?
Please go get a job at Wal-Mart or something, I am not judging you but you are healthy and you can work, go get a job, any job. I know that your family did not impart you with the WORK ETHIC that my family did, but you have a very very sick baby that needs a transplant, please go and get a job, so that when you look back on this time later in your life you know that you were not draining the system.
You drive newer automobiles than Mr. Anti Hippie and myself, and we work combined like 4 jobs, you work combined like 1. You are from that ME Generation, the ME Generation that expects someone to "help" you out, give you a hand out, if I was in your shoes I would be working like 6 jobs, you have a sick baby at home and tons of people willing to help you take care of that baby. This does not mean that they are supposed to give you hand outs or money, they will help you take care of the baby the rest is up to you.
T and B get a job! Quit living out of your means, this means start budgeting, start EATING at home, now that you are home start cooking. You got all the cookware for your wedding (20K wedding).
For those of you who have read this whole post, I know this sounds like sour grapes, but I have a job, when I could not afford certain luxuries I went without them or I worked my ass off in order to have them, and my kid came first, not my nails. I worked so that he would have the best, the best education, cause believe me TTLC (Eddy's Child Care Center) was not cheap. I drove my Ford Explorer into the ground, 250,000 miles, I gave up many things so that he could have, and it was not the best but he (Eddy Haskel) CAME FIRST. These two that I am complaining about always put themselves first. Nails, new truck, new car, new this and new that.

Please grow up, I know Baby M is on the Transplant list, but do her a favor, go out and be productive, even if it is just a job at Dollar General, quit using the system. Budget, budget, budget. Give up those luxuries, they will come with hard HARD work and determination. I vowed that Eddy Haskel would not be raised in poverty, that I would rise above it, and I did. I went to college, and went back to college, and graduated, and went back again, and in December I will graduate, again. No, I will not have a Playstation 3, nor will I own Rock Band, nor will I have a stroller or Bedroom set that matches, but I will not be on public assistance. I will own my own house, I will own 2 vehicles that are paid off, even though they are older models, I will cook dinner at home ALMOST every night, and I will love the one I am with for who he is, and I will love my kids.
I am sorry life has dealt you what it has dealt you, but remember I still love all of you and I will help you, you just need to help yourselves right now, and getting your nails "done", is not helping any of us.

Love,
EBM